Wednesday, March 11, 2009

Do YOU still like to kiss?

Something is WHACKED out with Blogger! I did this great post yesterday...trying to make up for my HORRIBLE person...and it didn't update in Google Reader until like midnight and I wrote the post earlier in the morning that day?


Something is against me!

Oh well...

On to MY favorite topic...KISSING!!!
I know this is a weird subject to be bringing up right now…or ever

But I am anyway! :)

I like to reminisce my kisses…because...
I LOVE kissing. Now do you see the importance of this topic?

I started late with the art of kissing…but I consider myself a fast learner, and never had a complaint…

Okay...maybe the first person that kissed me might have complained? But I didn't KNOW what I was doing, so that doesn't count…but I was taught well and used those abilities to enjoy what I feel is the BEST form of exercise for your mouth...which is an important muscle to exercise...

you KNOW you burn 26 calories per kiss? Nice...

There's definitely an art to it right? I love what
THIS article says about kissing.

I mean…a REALLY good kiss, to me, can be JUST as intimate as anything else that goes on AFTER a kiss…in the HOLY bonds of matrimony that is :)

I mean…I only had ONE person whom I didn't want to kiss more than the first time we kissed…and that is because he sucked all of my breath out in ONE kiss…and not because I was breathless in a good way, but I was breathless in a I'M GOING TO DIE way…
ya know what I mean?

And then there was this guy with GIRL fingers…and since
I’m not into GIRL on GIRL that WEIRDED me out. Anytime he touched me I was aware of it…he liked to hold onto my wrists and elbows when we kiss, and I would get creeped out because it felt like a girl was touching me.

But his KISS was Marvelous! He always started his kisses out soft…barely toucing my lips…then he would kiss again with more determination ending it with a little tug of my bottom lip with his teeth (If you have NEVER had someone do that to you while you kiss them, you should, it's amazing! Gives me the chills and BUTTEREFLIES just THINKING about it!). As long as his girl hands didn't creep up to my face, I was good…he would even make me FORGET his girly finger touch

...sometimes...

Then there was JIMBO, that is not even REMOTELY close to his name, but JIMBO was a really GOOD friend with benefits!

He was one of those guys that I would NEVER had been interested in as a boyfriend, but we were really good hang out buddies and then one day he just KISSED me…and I was like WHOA…STOP THE TRAIN…the guy was an INCREDIBLE kisser.

I was evil when I think back on it…
because I made sure I laid down the rules. I told him straight out that ALL we would ever be is friends because I wasn't interested in anything more than that, and I was saying that as I was breathless in a good way from his kiss and our very first kiss together. He said he didn't mind that…in fact, he said something like, "I can work with that…"

Either way…we kissed…
a lot. And I probably initiated more than he did…who knows…all I remember is just loving every second of it. In fact, he was my first and only BACK SEAT make-out while our two friends we were doubling with were in the front seat! LOL! Totally embarrassing…and they still give me crap about that. It's okay…it was totally worth it.

Okay…I won't BORE you with each guy I kissed and rating each one of them…but I must say...

...when I combined be completely attracted to the guy in mind
AND body…then having our first kiss…THAT combination is explosive! THAT experience I only had with my husband!

Sure I kissed other very attractive men…but their personalites wouldn't be up to par. Or their personalities were DYNAMITE but they weren't that attractive.

But my husband, for me, had BOTH.

One day I'll tell you about it,
in detail, because I LOVE remembering.

But for now…how do or did YOU feel about kissing? I still have friends who tell me they could do without it…
and I'm SHOCKED…there is NO WAY I could do without it.

Not even after being married for 9 years. I am still trying out new tricks when we kiss…and it's necessary to kiss longer than a second…a lot of people just peck each other now and then…but I'm telling you, try to kiss your significant other LONGER than a second and don't allow it to be CHASTE…

KISS them like you mean it!!! Carry breath mints or gum around. Kissing should be fun.

Okay,
who's boringwho doesn't like to kiss?

I kid…I'll only be horrified
BEHIND your back…but you can tell me…I'm a good listener.

Love,

Shelle

P.S. I got all these images off of Google Images searching "kissing"...just so you know!

35 comments:

Kristina P. said...

I think that a beautiful movie kiss if definitely porn for women.

Annette Lyon said...

Dang. I wish my husband wasn't at work. I totally want to smooch him now.

Shelle-BlokThoughts said...

Couldn't have said it better myself Kristina! :)

Shelle-BlokThoughts said...

I know...you SHOULD...and make it WORTHWHILE...ya know!

devri said...

I love me a great kiss.

roy/elisabeth dean said...

I DO love a good kiss!
My hubby is a great kisser too!

PJ - Our life said...

I used to be big into kissing, back in the day!! But now with kids and work and cleaning - it just doesn't happen. Maybe I need to work on it a little more. I'm just not big on PDA and I always have kids around. We even say OOH when when see people kissing on TV.

Heidi Ashworth said...

Heck yes! Now I'll go back and read the post b/c it looks pretty fun and steamy (like Miss D!)

Michele Horne said...

Eh, I am not a big kisser. Right now, when we have a spare few minutes, we have to get down to business! No time for real make-out sessions. Now, when we are away from the 3 kids... wait... we are NEVER away from the kids!

Heidi Ashworth said...

Aw, shucks, this IS a fun and steamy post and my hubby is at work. Time to break out the antihistamines and get the kids to sleep early tonight!

Susan said...

MMMMmmmmm... I LOVE kissing. The right person that is. And I just finished kissing my husband before he heads off to work. Delicious.

sara said...

I'm going to have to agree with Annette, this makes me really want to go find my husband at work and lay one on him.
I'd have to agree that kissing sometimes can be better than the "other" stuff... I just have a hard time convincing my hubby that.

The Crash Test Dummy said...

Ooooh, I like kissing, but I have to run to Costco so I'll have to come back later to meditate on it.

shannon said...

I'm bored with kissing lately...
I don't know what my deal is...I'm going through an unaffectionate stage...hopefully my libido returns soon...

When I am in an "I love kissing" mood, I MUST have chapstick!

Barbaloot said...

Oh I definitely like kissing....if I can remember right anyway. It's been awhile...
I will say, the NCMO does NOT do it for me. Granted, I'm detached enough that I can kind of analyize and pick up good pointers...but it totally takes away from the fun of kissing when it doesn't mean anything. For me, anyway.

Pancake said...

A good kisss is nice, but NO slobber!

springrose said...

My Hubby and I have gotten better with time, not just in years but in taking the time. I to love a good lip tug!! But just be careful you don't both try to do it at the same time, teeth crashing hurts! And for those that say there is no time, that is why kids go to bed at 7:30pm, that way you have plenty of time!! And boy does the time fly!! This is why we have child number 4 and 5!! I accidentally wrote 43 at first!! AAAAAHHHHH!!!! Can you imagine, I would definatley be on the news!! Not in a good way but a crazy lady way!

binks said...

Great makeout sessions lead to .....ahem .... well, you know. And sometimes that is just not appropriate at the grocery store or movie theater or Lowes or ......

The Wixom Zoo said...

I totally love kissing too. It always seems to be worse when Jeff's out of town. My lips get a mind of their own and just CRAVE a good kissin'!
P.S. We're going to Europe for our 10th anniversary PLUS we also have relatives that live in Holland. It'll be fun. Thanks for asking. :)

According to Ana said...

Ha Ha your header freaked me out today! I swear I looked over my shoulder so see if someone was watching me!

About kissing Love it. In fact when most couple bet sexual favors I have my husband put a 20 min makeout sech. on the line

high school rule apply. under the shirt over the bra.

Natalie said...

I adore you for posting about this. I've been married for almost 13 years, have 4 kids, and we STILL make out. It's one of those heavenly experiences that can make a bad day good again.

T said...

I still enjoy a little parking late at night up by the airport... so if you ever drive up there and see a big black SUV with steamy windows... keep on driving...

Youngblood4ever said...

Amen to Kristina's comment above. I TOTALLY dig on a sexy kissing scene. Even reading a kissing scene in a book makes me feel all jumbly inside! I could NEVER do without a fabulous kiss. Thanks for sharing your experiences. TTFN- gotta go smooch on the hubby now.

ukyankoz said...

Oooh, my hubby has the BEST lips for kissing - and he's GENIUS with them! We love 'snogging' like we used to when we were engaged and that was all we could do - sooo much fun!

And I love that black & white picture in your post, I want that as a poster!

The Crash Test Dummy said...

Oh Shelle, it's 12:57 a.m. and I'm all alone with no one to smooch. And I've vowed to stay up all night long, just because I CAN if I want to and no one's here to tell me I'll pay for this tomorrow. But this post is making me feel sad and lonely.

BTW, I LOVE LOVE That first photo. It's been one of my favs for a while. I totally love Robert Doisneau.

One of my favorite movie kisses is that last scene in Twilight. I think he kisses her on the neck.

I think kissing is way more intimate than . . . fortune cookies.

The Crash Test Dummy said...

Thanks for making my night miserable, Shelle.

merrianne said...

well, you know i love kissing! :)
i have pics on my blog & my facebook of me & spencer Lockin our Lips!!!



i never get tired of it.........

never!

Amanda said...

I love being able to kiss Nate good bye before work, and make him wish he could stay home. Kissing is always a good indicator of what's next.

Shelle-BlokThoughts said...

Oh crash...I'm so sorry, I KNOW it's hard to be lonely and have nobody to smoock and eat fortune cookies with...

I'm ridin' that lonely train today!!! :) I hate that train!

dolly etta said...

Okay Crash. Here's one to make you feel better. Try seven months of hubby in another country. Skype video chat is great and all but there's just some things that can't be replaced.

You should see Izzy hug her daddy by hugging my laptop. Breaks my heart.

But the kissing subject definitely makes me very jealous of all of the kissing going on out there.

And now that I have been reading your sidebar, I do see the twin like quality in you and shelle.

You are funny so funny Shelle!

Mindy said...

Mmmm, I hope I'm 100 and still making out with my husband...only no more teenage PDA unless it is only our kids around ;) Totally agree with you on the intimacy....not to say the "other" isn't totally amazing in its own right, but when that certain spark is there in a kiss NOTHING can beat that! Jason and I still remember one certain kiss (you know that ONE, when you had NEVER felt that way before?!) that was absolutely incredible and made us KNOW we were going to be together forever (that happened after we broke up and decided to be "just friends" hmmmm, not after that day!).

Stacey said...

I admit it, I've been stalking your blog for several days now, but this post has brought me out from the dark hiding! :) You are so cute...and such a great blogger! I just wanna kiss my husband right now!
Carry on. :)

Homer and Queen said...

OK that was mormon porn!!! Loved it and love kissin!

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