Have you ever said something that you wish you could take back the INSTANT you said it, or typed it?
That was me yesterday.
I divulged information, told a secret. It was MY secret. It wasn't one I was holding for someone else, yet I still wish I wouldn't have said it. I WISH I would have had a secret box to dump it in and forget about.
But NOOOOOOO... my fingers had to type or my mouth had to run off and I spilled my secret.
See I'm one of those people that can't carry the burden of a secret. If someone tells me something that they don't want me to tell anyone else, I have my go to person,the one person that actually can keep a secret, that I can unload or share the secret burden with, usually my hubs, (I tell him because anyone that is anyone KNOWS he's part of me... if I know, he knows). Or I would write it down. But what if my GO TO person is the person the secret is about!? Then who do I tell? Not that that is the case, I don't have anything to tell my hubs about my hubs... but you know what I mean. I have this secret to carry around all by my lonesome with no one to help carry the load... ya know?
And then it eats and eats and eats at me... until I unload it.
I so wish I would have had somewhere to unload it so I didn't say anything.
And now I just feel dumb. Again, just so we are clear, the secret was MINE, not someone elses.
Anyway--I thought I'd do all of you a favor and do the SECRET BOX today. Unload your secrets here anonymously or not... only if you don't do it anonymously then it isn't really a telling of a secret as much as it is a confessional. Leave your secret in comments, get rid of it, and BE FREE! Or not.
Like I wish I would have been yesterday afternoon.
Your.Welcome. I'm always letting you guys learn from my mistakes. I'm a giver.
Love,
Thursday, May 13, 2010
Secrets...Go ahead, UNLOAD.
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